The Old Man’s Story

On a miserable night in December 1960, Francis Chichester found his way to the Walton and Frinton Yacht Club on the East Coast of England. He had just won the first Single-handed Transatlantic race and become an instant celebrity.

It seems that one of the members knew the great man well enough to persuade him to come and give a talk about his experiences. This he did at some length with a series of colour transparencies (very new and exciting – although, of course, the projector broke down half-way through).

Somewhere towards the back was an eleven-year-old boy sitting with his family. That was me and I was transfixed. Here were stories of gales and self-steering failure and the pigeon who hitched a ride in mid-Atlantic – and through it all, one man alone against the elements. That was the day I decided I was going to live on a boat and sail across oceans alone.

It has taken 57 years with a series of false starts; but at the age of 68, I am very nearly there. I have the boat, I have the money, I have the good health and I am gradually freeing myself from the shore-based responsibilities.

If you are interested in this sort of thing. If you too have a dream which somehow got lost as life took its convoluted course, then you might be interested to read my story…

I first set foot on a boat at the age of five. My family were on holiday in Cornwall which is the bit that sticks out of the British Isles at the bottom left.  My father had sailed before the war (he bought his first boat off Eric Hiscock, author of Around the World in Wanderer III). Anyway, here he was with his wife and three children, the sun was shining, the breeze was gentle – and he hired a sailing dinghy on the Helford River. He gave me the tiller and told me to steer for “that yellow cornfield”. I did just that… until we grounded in the reeds at the edge of the field.

When we got home, Father bought a 14ft dinghy called Wilkie. She had a tiny foredeck which meant that I could pretend that the cuddy underneath was my cabin. However Mother wanted somewhere to boil a kettle and so, by the time I was eight, we had a 25ft Folkboat called Torgunn and found ourselves in Holland.

At 13, I was pleased to find us moving up to a 28ft Kim Holman-designed Sterling – a real boat. You could go anywhere in Bellrock – and that set me thinking…

Bellrock – 28ft Sterling

By this time I was at boarding school and doing very badly. I was considered either obstinate or stupid. The only subject I was any good at was English. So when, at 15, I borrowed ten shillings from another boy and ran away home, I informed my parents that what I wanted to do instead was live on a boat and make my living as a writer.

However, they had other ideas and sent me back. Sometimes parents have no imagination – although they did upgrade to a 36ft Halbardier ketch.

Bellrock II – 36ft Halbardier

So I left school 18 with no A-levels. I used the English paper as a vehicle for my earnest opinion that Shakespeare was no more than a reasonably competent hack churning out plays for money. He would not have had time for the sort of convoluted thinking which had kept generations of academics in comfort ever since.

In putting forward this theory, I failed to consider that my paper would be marked by said comfortable academics…

Never mind, you don’t need a university education to live on a boat and write about it.

The only problem was that at 18 I had neither a boat nor anything to write about.

And that was how I ended up as a journalist, working my way through local papers and fetching up on the Daily Mail. Ultimately I became Chief Correspondent for the London Evening Standard. At times I had columns for the Daily Telegraph, Yachting World and the Mail’s You Magazine.

I had learned to write. But there was still the other part of the dream to attend to…

In my late 20’s I bought an 18ft Caprice, Amicus, and sailed her to the Channel Islands and Brittany.

Amicus – 18ft Caprice

In my 30’s I upgraded to a Rival 32 Largo and competed twice in the single-handed section of the Azores and Back Race and also in the 1988 Single-handed Transatlantic (Chichester’s OSTAR).

Largo – Rival 32

But always at the end of the voyage, I had to go back to work. You see, as John Lennon predicted, life had happened to me while I was making other plans.

For one thing, I got married (briefly) at 23 – and then, just as my two sons were growing up and becoming independent and I was getting ready to go,  I fell in love again. Of course this time it was a little different because my second wife thought she would like nothing better than to bring up her family on a boat.

So I sold Largo and bought a 27ft Heavenly Twins catamaran Lottie Warren – and five years later, with two small boys, decided that this had been a very bad idea. Everybody hated it – and if everybody else hated it, then it wasn’t much fun for me either.

Lottie Warren – 27ft Heavenly Twins

There was a good deal of agonising at that point – what did I want to do? What was the right thing to do?

One way and another I spent the next 17 years living in a house in a small market town on the East Coast and learning to make a living without going back to work. I did my best to become a part of the community. This was not a great success. I expect people found me rather odd and distant…

I joined the local sailing club, bought a Laser and came last year after year. Finally, I had to admit that going round the buoys on the same patch of river was not really my idea of sailing – and out of this grew the idea for a “proper” boat.

Samsara – another Rival 32

Something else had happened too: I had got old. Not in the sense of gradually declining faculties which is the way most people grow old.  No, I became old at the age of 66 – almost as if someone had thrown a switch. I fell asleep at the wheel and wrote off my brand new car (ten days old, hadn’t even had a chance to wash it).   If I stood too long in the shower a patch of skin on my nose would start to bleed and I would come downstairs with a piece of toilet paper stuck to it…

Next, I spent so much time on antibiotics that I ended up in hospital having them intravenously (I had banged my elbow).

This sort of thing is depressing. Or at least it is until you realise that it is voluntary. Nobody needs to get old. After all, there are people in the world who live to 120 – which means that it is possible for anyone to live to 120 – if only they were to copy the lifestyles of those who have proved it can be done (I won’t bore you with the details now but there’s a tab at the top).

So this blog is going to be an ongoing account of turning the dream into a reality. Of course, there are plenty of sailing blogs out there but I hope this one will appeal to a small but discerning readership: For one thing, there will be no videos of beautiful young people wearing not many clothes. This is because it is very unlikely there will be such people on my boat.

In fact, there may not be any videos at all.

Just words. I hope you like them.

Of course, you can see more on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/oldmansailing/or subscribe to my YouTube channel at http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdcR6l3UFssnS6zVPU96UAg

The Old Man

john@oldmansailing.com

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